for sending me the link to the one that the mean gal won't sell me. Thank you both so much.) I hadn't spotted it and it's gorgeous, I don't have anything like it at all. All of the dresses I've found are lacey and sophisticated, this is so gardeny, and pretty floral. I love it. I wrote to the gal whose site it is, wish me luck.
Now I just ahve to try to figure out whether I just want to let go of the other dress or beg her to just knowck it down a bit and spread the payments out over three months or something. she probably wouldn't even go for that. What I'd really like to do is write back, tell her to f%$* off, and to take my name, and the info she got from me, off of her site, but that just wouldn't be the loving karmic things to do now would it?
Here's the beautiful dress that Shelli found for me. I'm so happy and grateful.